The big photo convention season is quickly approaching and I am getting so excited about meeting new friends and catching up with old ones!  One thing that always bums me out after convention season is how many emails I get from people who were too shy to come up and introduce themselves to me (believe it or not, some people are under the impression that I am one of the cool kids. lol.)  I thought it would be fun to sort of break the ice ahead of time and give you all a little glimpse of who I am (definitely not a cool kid!), so we have something to talk about in Vegas.

I am (embarrassingly) addicted to US Weekly and always love their "25 Things You Don't Know About Me" features, so I thought I'd make a little list for myself.

1. I am addicted to Burt's Bees lip balm.
2. I love Gin, but it makes me a crazy woman, so I don't drink it anymore.
3. "24" is one of my favorite shows, but it really bothers me that Jack Bauer has never, in 8 seasons, eaten or taken a drink of water. I am now obsessed with Jack's nutritional intake.
4. My parents bred Australian Shepherds when I was growing up and we always had at least 7 or 8 dogs.
5. Kids called me "Chenin the Dog Girl" in school :(
6. I met my husband, Doug, in middle school.  He was the best friend of my boyfriend at the time (woopsies.)
7. It took me 3 years to convince Doug that he was in love with me. I think he finally just gave up.
8. My son is named after the artist, Maxfield Parrish, and the famous Chicago Cub, Ernie Banks.
9. I secretly hope Maxfield grows up to be a dork.
10. I refuse to eat American cheese, because, in the 6th grade, a bully put it in my hair. (Told you I am not a cool kid.)
11. My grandfather was a photographer and used to let me play in his darkroom when I was little.
12. If there was plastic surgery for shortness, I would do it.
13. I am currently eating an Atomic Fireball for the first time in 20 years. It's spicy as hell.
14. I am sort of just making this stuff up so I have something to blog (don't judge. you do it too.)
15. I love Cat Stevens' music but right now I am listening to Ice Cube's "Amerikkka's Most Wanted."
16. I am an enigma.
17. My favorite book is "Franny and Zooey," by J.D. Salinger.
18. I love champagne and dark beer.
19. My heart has stopped on more than one occasion.
20. I am a sushi snob.
21. My first car was a 1987 Mazda RX-7, which I crashed at least 3 times. One time, I hit a Samoan lady with it and she almost kicked my ass
22. I have an irrational fear of birds. I am disgusted by their feet (which is why the bird in my logo has none) and I am convinced that they carry disgusting germs.
23. I am a germaphobe.
24. I am not a rock star.
25. I sometimes wish I was a bank robber, because I want to scale walls in a tight black suit.

So that's it.... 25 things you don't know about me. 

I will be posting later this week with my speaking schedule at WPPI!  Hope to see you there!

delightfully,
Chenin

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Rina said: LOL@number 21. I'm laughing because I'm Samoan (the WHITEST Samoan you'll ever meet) and can TOTALLY see that happening! I've been following your blog, Chenin, for quite some time and have never commented. But I just HAD to on this one! Glad you made it out ok...Samoan women can be scary! (03.02.10 @ 02:24 PM)
AmyPunky Photography said: ROTFL for #12: I'd do it too!!!! And I laughed a lot at #14! So true!!!! (03.02.10 @ 02:26 PM)
Lydia said: I love Burt's Bees lip balm too! I'll have to pack a few for WPPI just in case I lose one! If I see you around WPPI, I will TRY to be brave and come up and introduce myself! (03.02.10 @ 02:30 PM)
Katie Neal Photo said: Cracked up about the irrational fear of birds!!! So ironic! Would love to meet you at WPPI! So, I'm excited you'll be posting your schedule!!! wahooo! (03.02.10 @ 02:30 PM)
shannon said: this is fantastic! i would LOVE to meet up with you at wppi. hopefully i can make that work! thanks for sharing!! (03.02.10 @ 02:52 PM)
cindee bae said: Love your #14, rofl! (03.02.10 @ 03:01 PM)
s h e r r y said: I'm with you one #1. LOVE that stuff. I'm just going to say that #3 is amazing. NEVER noticed. But now I'm concerned for Mr. Bauer as well. (03.02.10 @ 03:02 PM)
Alice Hu said: Hope to meet you at WPPI! Your irrational fear of birds sounds like my irrational fear of fish. (03.02.10 @ 03:34 PM)
karen lisa said: hey chenin! we've only met briefly at dwf and wppi in 2008... then we both skipped the shows last year due to having babies! I look forward to seeing you again and will definitely say hi. btw, also wanted to say I like how much more personal your blog has become lately since you had max... I hope we'll have a chance to chat a bit at the show! I might steal your blog idea for my own. :) (03.02.10 @ 03:56 PM)
Derek Frenzel said: I am still laughing out loud about the Samoan lady 1) because you actually hit a person and not just another car and 2) because she probably would have done more damage to the car that vice versa. "Chenin the dog girl" is AWESOME!!! If I ever start a band, that is what I will name it. Incidentally, my nickname in Jr. High was "Colorado Man." Thanks for all the t-shirts from your trip Grandma... Sarah and I will try to introduce ourselves if we see you at WPPI... (03.02.10 @ 04:15 PM)
Heather Maynard said: From one sushi snob to another, I hear there's a great place to get sushi inside MGM. :) Hope to get a chance to meet you! (03.02.10 @ 04:22 PM)
Mandi said: Umkay, totally wiping my eyes from laughing my A off. (03.02.10 @ 04:54 PM)
Karla Danae said: so i COMPLETELY agree with #22! birds are terrifying, but for no good reason! (03.02.10 @ 05:43 PM)
Colorado Wedding Photographer, JasonG said: I love Cat Stevens too! (03.02.10 @ 06:17 PM)
Julia Williams said: My mom also breeds Australian Shepherds! Moose (my naughty puppy who ate my discs after I shot with you) is an Aussie, as is my other pup Bandit. I don't think i've ever met anyone else who's parents also bred dogs. I was also super uncool in school. Maybe the two are related? (03.02.10 @ 07:44 PM)
Hannah Suh said: So surprised about #22 since you have birds in your branding! I've had a phobia of birds for years, and it totally sucks since pigeons are *everywhere* in San Francisco. Can't believe people mocked you for having so many dogs, dogs are awesome! They can scare away the birds. :) (03.02.10 @ 09:31 PM)
Angela Hubbard said: LOVE IT! (03.03.10 @ 12:01 AM)
kristin korpos said: Hope to see you in Vegas! Thanks for sharing! (03.03.10 @ 05:56 AM)
Jen said: number 24 is simply not true. you are a rock star. in this nerd's book anyways :) (03.03.10 @ 08:14 AM)
amy b said: I would have loved to have been called "amy the dog girl" and genuine is way better than cool any day. #7 is totally funny, and I am a sushi snob too! we'll have to go snob it up sometime! (03.03.10 @ 09:57 AM)
Melissa w. Soul Mates Photo said: loving this! hope to meet you in vegas! (03.03.10 @ 12:14 PM)
Nicole Bunten said: There is absolutely nothing embarassing about being addicted to US Weekly! I am so intrigued with the "Stars, they're just like us" section. There is something facinating about seeing Angelina buy groceries and a Kardashian pick her nose. (03.03.10 @ 12:33 PM)
Stacy Salvatori said: #3 is LOL hiliarious!!! and I pulled a #6, only it was in college, and i'd do it again! :) love you work! (03.03.10 @ 12:42 PM)
~abi~ said: okay, now i am so not intimidated by you...so i will introduce myself next week in vegas! :) (03.04.10 @ 08:18 AM)
nancy ray said: i am so glad to hear someone else realizes this about jack bauer! i have always wanted him to take a drink of water, and to use the bathroom. does he never have to pee? regardless, my hubby & i are still obsessed with the show. :] (03.04.10 @ 09:21 AM)
Dave Bredrin said: Well, the don't call Gin "mother's ruin" for nowt eh girl!? (03.04.10 @ 03:06 PM)
Ricardo De La Ghapchild said: Chenin Blanc is my favorite white wine grape. ;-) (03.04.10 @ 03:08 PM)
Jeff Koontz said: Re No 18. - Dem call it Black Velvet. Fo Shizzle ma Chezzle!!! (03.04.10 @ 03:12 PM)
erika said: Isn't having something you're afraid of as a logo against all rules of branding?! hahahaha (03.04.10 @ 03:18 PM)
maegan dougherty said: I love the Burt's Bees Lip Shimmer. I think it's the papaya I have. It's perfect! http://www.burtsbees.com/natural-products/lips-lip-shimmer-gloss/lip-shimmer.html (03.07.10 @ 04:28 AM)
Nancy Cuppy said: Maxwell Parrish, my mother use to reupholster furniture when I was growing up. She would by old antique chairs and fix them up to look beautiful. Those chairs are still holding strong after 40 plus years. One day she came home with this very large painting she got at a old thrift store. I would spend hours looking at it. I thought it was eve in the garden of Eden. Love love Maxfield Parrish's work. So how are you liking your switch to Nikon? (03.07.10 @ 10:02 AM)
amanda said: I giggled so loud I almost woke up my sleeping baby when I read this :) I love your photography, and this post just made me like you as a real person! Even though I don't know you. But I blog stalk you. So it's all good :) (and #22 is the best thing EVER) (03.07.10 @ 07:07 PM)
jenny said: i just love you. always. i am a germaphobe also :) i won't even drink after my husband..haha i'm convinced it's a disease.. (03.08.10 @ 09:33 AM)
jenny said: i just love you. always. i am a germaphobe also :) i won't even drink after my husband..haha i'm convinced it's a disease.. (03.08.10 @ 09:33 AM)
Lisa Love in Madison, Alabama =) said: Your blog provided a smile today ~ thanks! I can also relate to #16 "I am an enigma".....in fact I've been told that more than a handful of times & secretly kinda like it! =) (03.08.10 @ 09:54 AM)
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I cannot believe that my sweet Maxfield is one year old!  It's cliche to say, but it seems like yesterday that Doug and I were leaving from the hospital (in a pouring rainstorm, I might add) to take our little one home.  And now I am posting about his first birthday. All I can really say is "wow."

On Sunday, Doug and I had our closest friends and family to our home to celebrate Max's birthday.  From the time that he was born, I knew I wanted to throw Maxfield a robot birthday party.  Something about robots says "all boy" to me and I thought it would be fun, without being too baby-ish (which I am always trying to avoid.)

I spent the last two months making every last detail of this party.  Every time I sat down to make paper bunting, or a happy birthday sign, or robot party garland, I wondered how the heck I found the time.  But the truth is, I had so much fun dreaming up projects and making them happen.  I am not sure who had more fun - me or Max (ok, let's be honest... I did!)

Some of my fun crafts, including the invitations, bunting and his birthday sign (which I hope to re-use), that I made.  I think my favorite project was the flower vases, which I made out of recycled glass jars and dryer ducting.  We also had a Make-Your-Own-Robot Station, where kids (and adults, it turns out....) could choose a blank paper robot and decorate him.
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Grace from Sweet Gems totally blew us away with this adorable cake.  I am so grateful that she went with the robot theme and totally ran with it. We had Rock 'Em Sock 'Em Robots for the kids to play and each child got to take one of these paper robot boxes home, which were filled with stickers, wind up robots and Pop Rocks.
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And, lastly, a couple of photos of Max with his own little cake.  He was trepidatious at first (which probably had to do with the 40 cameras pointed at him!), but he got in to it after a while.
 (Special thanks to Uncle Becker for taking these shots, so mommy could watch and enjoy!)
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And now, pardon me, while I leave a little something here for Maxfield, in hopes that he will one day get to read his Mommy's blog....

Dear Maxfield,
You are truly the light of my life.  You make me smile, you make me laugh, you make me remember to take deep breaths and count to 10, you make me stop and listen and enjoy little slivers of time like never before. You make me appreciate the big things and savor the little things. You make me love your daddy and your grandmas and your grandpas like never before. Simply put, you grew my heart. 

Happy birthday sweet boy.

I love you.

Even when you're naughty. (Which is almost always.)
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delightfully,
Chenin

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Lydia said: While I was blown away by the details you created, I love the letter to Max best. So sweet! Happy B'day Maxfield! (02.17.10 @ 12:13 PM)
Amanda Rae said: That was amazing...all of it...the party...the note...everything! I still think you have a future in party planning/styling! Happy Birthday to Max! (02.17.10 @ 12:13 PM)
Chenin's Mom said: Happy 1st Birthday Max! You look so like your mommy at the same age that it brings tears to my eyes. May you bring as much love and pride to her life as she's brought to mine. xoxo, Grammy K (02.17.10 @ 12:22 PM)
Liz said: Happy Birthday Max!! Such attention to detail - you also would make a great event planner! (02.17.10 @ 12:33 PM)
Bailey said: Seriously CUTE! (02.17.10 @ 12:52 PM)
[ b ] said: i can't believe he is so big, such a fun party. you are so crafty! (02.17.10 @ 12:54 PM)
erika said: That last picture is TOO CUTE! That needs to be a nice big canvas somewhere =) (02.17.10 @ 01:08 PM)
michelle said: obsessed! I have a 4 month old and seeing this makes me look forward to his first birthday even though I want him to stop growing now! so cute thanks for sharing him! (02.17.10 @ 01:20 PM)
Tey Garcia said: Wow, awesome party!! Max is one lucky boy :) I'm so jealous of your craftiness. Great job mommy Chenin!! (02.17.10 @ 01:28 PM)
Jasmine* said: Augh...Chenin, your note made me tear up....so amazing... (02.17.10 @ 02:06 PM)
cameron clark| cameron + kelly studio said: Happy Birthday Maxfield. My little guy, Owen, turns two March 1st. I loved this age 12mo-24mo. Not sure what I think of 2 yet. Congrats on making it through the first year! PHEW. I know it's a lot of work with a business and a baby. (02.17.10 @ 02:12 PM)
Tony Bisson said: Cute kid. (02.17.10 @ 03:24 PM)
kristin @ The Treasured Petal said: Awesome job with the details, Chenin! Your little note to Max made me tear up. What a beautiful family! (02.17.10 @ 04:45 PM)
AmyC said: Fantastic party! Great pictures! Happy Birthday Max! (02.17.10 @ 06:28 PM)
julia williams said: aw, this is too sweet! it's amazing how quickly they grow. my little guy is only 3 months old, but it makes me want to start planning his first birthday party :) (02.17.10 @ 08:10 PM)
julia williams said: aw, this is too sweet! it's amazing how quickly they grow. my little guy is only 3 months old, but it makes me want to start planning his first birthday party :) (02.17.10 @ 08:11 PM)
Jennifer Larsen said: You are a wonderful mom! The party looks great and you did an amazing job with the decorations. Such a handsome boy! (02.17.10 @ 08:50 PM)
Nick Grove said: Hi It's so great to see something so totally different and so refreshing. YOur website is excellent and compliments your work perfectly. We don't have anything like this in the UK. Maybe it's all the sun you gety over there! Keep up the good work. Nick (02.18.10 @ 03:50 AM)
Colorado Wedding Photographer - JasonG said: Very cool... I love that you share this part of your life with the world. BTW - fantastic detail shots! (02.18.10 @ 06:22 AM)
Jacquelyn said: That cake is pretty epic for a first birthday! Or a 25th birthday! (02.18.10 @ 09:03 PM)
jenny said: happy birthday max :) i love the theme..little boys are so sweet. (02.18.10 @ 09:28 PM)
angel swanson said: you did a wonderful job with the details of this party, chenin!! max is too cute for words; i am in love with him!! (02.18.10 @ 11:51 PM)
weddingchicks said: thanks for making me have a huge lump in my throat after reading the letter. soooo glad we got to spend the day with the boutwell family. xoxo a million times. and, for the record, max is never naughty. (02.19.10 @ 10:50 AM)
Ayumi said: Truly inspiring! I have a billion and one excuses why we don't do birthdays big, but really it might be me being lazy. This makes me want to plan a great one! (02.20.10 @ 12:43 PM)
Paul Von Rieter - Newport Beach Wedding Photographer said: What a great theme idea. I think I might have to bite styles for my soon to be 3 year old's party. (02.21.10 @ 08:53 PM)
Jennifer Ballard said: Awwwww, you just put a huge lump in my throat! So cute! (02.22.10 @ 01:46 PM)
Kate Triano said: He is so adorable!!! (02.26.10 @ 02:04 PM)
Tonya Peterson said: So adorable! I love it. And yeah he is about the cutest boy ever (not like you didn't know) (03.01.10 @ 09:49 PM)
Lori said: Totally tearing up right now over the mommy moment. He is the cutest little guy. Just wait, my son will be 2 this year and it just keeps flying by. He's naughty too, but what fun would it be if they weren't. (03.02.10 @ 03:00 PM)
gladys jem said: maxfield is the cutest. and just like the others, there is a lump in my throat as well. (03.02.10 @ 10:47 PM)
Mary said: Awwww, what a beautiful party and great photos. It's amazing how fast they grow up. I'm planning my guys first birthday party next month. Where did the past year go? At least our boys have wonderful mommies who take amazing photographs! Congrats to you both :) (03.04.10 @ 07:29 AM)
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I am thrilled that I can finally share this lovely bridal shower that I had the opportunity to shoot last month.  Jeannie Savage, planner extraordinaire and a dear friend, threw this darling shower for her bestie, Grace.  It was a flawless day, filled with lots of cupcakes, pink flowers and all things super-girly.  Grace's shower was featured today on Style Me Pretty (thanks Abbie!) and now I can share the images with you all!  Enjoy!





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Julia Williams said: Those are the most delicious looking cupcakes ever - do you know where Jeannie got them?? (02.09.10 @ 06:00 PM)
Sandy said: This is so so so adorable!! I'm a huge fan of pink and this is how I would have wanted to have my bridal shower (except I didn't have time to have one). (02.09.10 @ 06:50 PM)
Sarah said: Aw, this looks soo delicate and feminine, and just a touch vintage. So perfect :) (02.09.10 @ 06:55 PM)
s h e r r y said: Oh wow. I love all the table decorations... and those cupcakes look SO tasty! (02.09.10 @ 11:56 PM)
cindee bae said: amazing decor! Now I'm craving cupcakes.. hmm.. (02.10.10 @ 11:44 AM)
Jeannie Savage said: Cupcakes were from Frostings in Lake Forest, they were delicious too, quite moist! (02.10.10 @ 03:48 PM)
mrslamdunk said: wow,its amazing photos ! how could you make them,lovely colour .I LOVE THIS SO MUCH ! (02.10.10 @ 08:37 PM)
Petey said: the way you lay out your blog posts, just makes me plain happy! :) Phenomenal! (02.10.10 @ 10:03 PM)
Serendipity Photography said: Lovely details! I love every single pic!!!!!! (02.11.10 @ 12:32 PM)
Amber said: absolutely beautiful! the shower and the photography. you do such an awesome job capturing all the details! (02.12.10 @ 06:16 PM)
jenny said: beautiful. those cupcakes look amazing :) (02.13.10 @ 07:44 PM)
jenny said: beautiful. those cupcakes look amazing :) (02.13.10 @ 07:45 PM)
jenny said: beautiful. those cupcakes look amazing :) (02.13.10 @ 07:45 PM)
Harmony Loves said: everything looks so amazing. I adore your style! (02.15.10 @ 12:58 PM)
grace @ the cinderella project said: so adorable! and being a gal named grace, i double like! (02.16.10 @ 02:56 PM)
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A while back, the lovely Davina Fear did a nice interview with me for her Women in Business Series.  She was particularly interested in how I juggle my workflow with a (now walking!!!!) baby in the house.  I give detailed, day-by-day instructions for making it happen RIGHT HERE!

And since no mommy post is complete without a cute pic of the wee one, here's Maxfield on his new swing!
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candice brooke said: awwww I love you MAX!!!! (02.02.10 @ 11:36 AM)
Doug Boutwell said: OMFG that series melts me. (02.02.10 @ 11:37 AM)
Doug Boutwell said: OMFG that series melts me. (02.02.10 @ 11:40 AM)
Doug Boutwell said: OMFG that photo melts me! (02.02.10 @ 11:40 AM)
Heather Stokes said: He is such a doll and thank you for sharing the info for workflow! You didn't have to do that and it is greatly appreciated! Heather (02.02.10 @ 12:22 PM)
brooke bowland said: he is adorable. walking already? wowzers. lock the cupboards! hehe. (02.02.10 @ 12:32 PM)
Danielle Simone said: He is absolutely, cheek pinching, CUTE! (02.02.10 @ 12:32 PM)
Zach Hodges said: you just became my time management idol. WOW! Thanks for sharing that. (02.02.10 @ 01:37 PM)
s h e r r y said: He is ADORABLE! (02.02.10 @ 01:41 PM)
Rebecca said: Oh my goodness! so cute. (02.02.10 @ 01:50 PM)
judy said: That was an amazing interview. I liked reading about how structured your week is and having Mommy Days. Looks like your organizational skills are an intregal factor of your success. Thanks for sharing! P.S. Max is adorable! (02.02.10 @ 01:57 PM)
Kia Gregory said: I love when baby's scrunch their faces. It makes cream cheese in his hair not so bad, huh? And thanks for sharing the link to the Women in Business Series! PEACE! (02.02.10 @ 03:29 PM)
seth goodman said: Your kiddo is totally cute! That was a good interview. Life with kids can be crazy. I have three kids under eight and one of them has autism. It definitely takes a lot of discipline and love to maintain this crazy life. (02.02.10 @ 05:47 PM)
Jennifer O. said: He is too cute! Off to read your interview! (02.02.10 @ 06:27 PM)
melissa said: awww, chenin! so precious. (02.02.10 @ 09:30 PM)
Kim said: Chenin, thank you so much for sharing that interview. I'm 8 months pregnant right now and have to be honest, am a little freaked out about how I am going to manage my business after the baby is born. Like you, it's a "just me" operation. Your interview really truly alleviated some of my fears and showed me it's all possible. Just wanted to say thank you! (02.03.10 @ 07:19 AM)
cindee bae said: loved the interview, thanks! (02.03.10 @ 10:10 AM)
Katie Neal Photo said: SOOOO CUTE! I am so excited to read about how you do it, as I don't have time and I don't have kids yet! :( (02.03.10 @ 03:49 PM)
Abra Michelle said: How extraordinarily beautiful is your boy? (02.03.10 @ 08:58 PM)
Abra Michelle said: How extraordinarily beautiful is your boy? (02.03.10 @ 08:58 PM)
Jaclyne - Heavenly Blooms said: He is adorable. I love these shots! (02.03.10 @ 09:45 PM)
Heather Moreau said: So Cute! And great article too! You already know that I am on the search for any kind of info like this:) (02.05.10 @ 08:24 AM)
Sarah said: I just recently came across your blog, and have found the info you put on here for photogs so helpful! Thank you so much for sharing :) (02.05.10 @ 09:20 AM)
jessica g said: Thanks so much for sharing! This is a constant struggle for me and I'm amazed at how well you do it. Love your three 'S's - I will have to get that into action right away! (02.08.10 @ 08:50 AM)
Ariel Renae said: He is a doll....sooo adorable. (02.08.10 @ 11:07 AM)
Amy said: First of all, he's adorable. And secondly, thank you SO much for doing that interview. I needed that. (02.24.10 @ 07:08 PM)
Andrea said: I was browsing through your blog again & remembered this post especially. I had opened the link to the interview & read through it later... it was freaking helpful! I always appreciate your transparency. Sometimes even the smallest little things help bring clarity for those of us still catching on! (03.02.10 @ 07:35 PM)
Mary @ Lemon Fresh Designs Photography said: Thanks so much for sharing this post. It is a struggle, but who needs sleep right? We love what we do, and we find the time to be superheros and it shows in our work! Love the swing... he looks so happy! (03.04.10 @ 07:34 AM)
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For years now, my husband and I have frequented Sushi Wasabi, a tiny strip-mall sushi restaurant in what can only be described as the "wrong side of the tracks."  It is 30 miles from our house and the decor leaves a lot to be desired.  In fact, the only decor being a big sign above the sushi bar that reads "TRUST ME."  But we go, year after year, because it is the best damn sushi in the world.

So what makes Sushi Wasabi so good?  What makes it good is the hard-core dedication of it's chef, Katsu, to doing his own thing. Although conjuring scenes from Seinfeld's "Soup Nazi," Katsu is 100% dedicated to serving only the best sushi.  There is no menu, there is no edamame, there are no Sexy Ninja rolls.... heck, Katsu won't even let you take your order to go. Everything at Sushi Wasabi is served Omakase Style, which means that the Chef feeds you whatever he/she wants until you're full. Omakase is the antithesis of choice.

I have often visited Katsu and looked around to notice that this little restaurant is packed to the gills (pun intended.)  There is always a ton of people waiting for Katsu to work his magic, despite the lack of loud music, neon cocktails and ridiculously-named sushi rolls.  Let's just say that Katsu's business is booming, and he didn't have to make a single compromise to do it. Methinks there is a business lesson here....

As photographers, we do our best work when we are given total trust from our clients. But how many of us are asking for it?  Do you have the guts to be like Katsu and ask "TRUST ME?" I do. And, admittedly, not all clients honor my request; some clients take a look at the proverbial "menu" and walk out of my "sushi bar." But you can bet that the clients who take a chance - who let me do my thing - leave very, very full.

delightfully,
Chenin

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jessica claire said: this is a really cute analogy! it's also ironic--i'm shooting some photos for my favorite sushi chef at sushi plantation on monday. he wasn't going to have me do that, he said he could just have a friend do it. i told him that would be like me cutting some fish and slapping some rice on it--so he booked me :) (01.29.10 @ 11:04 AM)
Amanda Rae said: I love this story as much as I love random whole in the wall eateries. And that's a lot! Now it's just a matter of reminding myself of this everyday when people ask me to do things I don't want to do. (01.29.10 @ 11:14 AM)
Wendy Maybury said: Printed and hanging on the wall. (01.29.10 @ 11:17 AM)
David of DavidHam said: My kind of place. Great analogy and writeup Chenin. So no ninja rolls there? Are there pirate ones? ;) (01.29.10 @ 11:20 AM)
jane button said: Great analogy - I think you might be onto something here...thanks for sharing! (01.29.10 @ 11:37 AM)
Faith said: Great analogy, Chenin! (01.29.10 @ 11:43 AM)
Terri said: Great story, Chenin. We should all ask for trust from our clients because most people are happy to give it as a gift and it makes them feel empowered, too! (01.29.10 @ 12:17 PM)
Michelle said: I'm glad to see this post. Not only was it helpful, but my husband has been to this resturaunt and described the Sushi Chef the exact same way you did. He asked for Ponzu sauce and the chef told him "NO PONZU FOR YOU!!!" seriously, true story. What makes this story even funnier, is that I'm reading this story and we now live in Georgia, but know exactly where that little Tustin place is. (01.29.10 @ 02:11 PM)
Tony Bisson said: Chefs who can get away with tasting or pre fix menus have to work very hard to deliver the goods or the place dies. It is a tall order to take away an American's choice and make them happy. Few can pull it off in the business world. There are just many choices and word travels too fast if you fall short. (01.29.10 @ 02:15 PM)
cindee bae said: love love this post!! It's weird how some people won't trust the professional when they're paying for the service.. it really boggles my mind.. If a sushi chef wants to feed me a certain dish cause he believes it's the best of the night, I'll take his word for it, NO DOUBT! Btw, just googled sushi wasabi and planning to go there next weeked, thanks! :) (01.29.10 @ 02:41 PM)
Jasmine* said: Loved this analogy and this post...so true! (01.29.10 @ 03:12 PM)
lroah said: FANTASTIC post. (01.29.10 @ 04:35 PM)
Santa Barbara Wedding said: Very well put. Couldn't have said it better myself!!! (01.29.10 @ 05:04 PM)
lane dittoe said: well played miss! (01.29.10 @ 08:03 PM)
Cliff Brunk said: Fabulous analogy, very well said. (01.29.10 @ 11:54 PM)
Andrea said: Good stuff. I've noticed a difference when they do trust & respect me, but I've never been the one to have the guts to "ask" for it. I see it a little differently after this post. Thanks. (01.30.10 @ 07:51 AM)
Mel Watson said: Perfect analogy! It really drives home the idea that people will do whatever it takes, drive 30 miles, to get the quality product they desire. Katsu has clearly done a bang up job of creating dedicated fans. Thanks for sharing and now I'm pretty much wanting to fly to the west coast for some sushi! ;) (01.30.10 @ 08:49 AM)
Alisa Greig said: LOVE this, so true, the sessions where the clients do put full trust, are the ones that turn out the best! (01.31.10 @ 12:30 AM)
Harold Jankowiak said: You are so correct, I think I'm going to have to direct my blog readers over here to check out this post. (01.31.10 @ 02:34 PM)
Joel Flory said: So so so true. Thank you for reminding me to ask/recommend that they TRUST us because you are so right in that when they do it is the best photos possible. (01.31.10 @ 05:17 PM)
Joel Flory said: So so so true. Thank you for reminding me to ask/recommend that they TRUST us because you are so right in that when they do it is the best photos possible. (01.31.10 @ 05:18 PM)
cameron clark| cameron + kelly studio said: AMEN, let the trust begin. (01.31.10 @ 07:42 PM)
Cari Chee said: Thanks so much for sharing this story! It's really difficult for newer photographers to trust themselves and their vision sometimes, and I think it's the best lesson for us all to learn. It also makes for a more rewarding relationship with clients, and a lasting love for what we do. (02.01.10 @ 07:39 AM)
corey said: I love that Chenin esp when the client will say well Corey your the artist you choose whats best for us!! Wish life was always like this!! (02.04.10 @ 06:25 AM)
jenny said: good stuff chenin. i have a hard time saying that...but when they do trust me and let me do my "own" thing everything works out a lot better! (02.13.10 @ 07:59 PM)
Katya said: Love it! Thanks for sharing! Wish all our clients read this. ;-) (03.02.10 @ 12:18 AM)
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